tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8964719845369935777.post2867844134851314018..comments2024-03-18T16:39:23.054-04:00Comments on Chemjobber: "S": "I cannot think of a more realistic choice I could have made."Chemjobberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15932113680515602275noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8964719845369935777.post-33016307967681615322015-03-11T09:08:44.559-04:002015-03-11T09:08:44.559-04:00The affair was kept very secret, to the point of t...The affair was kept very secret, to the point of the advisor even pretending to be married and living at home for longer than s/he actually was. No one had any concrete evidence of the relationship until it became open after the student's graduation, but everyone suspected because of their friendlier banter and spending more time together. It was almost worse having everyone in the department constantly inquiring.<br /><br />Having so many friends and a significant other in the department, I wasn't just worried about retaliation against me, but against those I cared for. To this day, I still have a close relationship with someone who could have their career seriously impacted because of my former advisor's current position. In fact, I went as far as to get their permission before submitting this story.Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8964719845369935777.post-35320739863390904092015-02-04T16:35:25.938-05:002015-02-04T16:35:25.938-05:00Wow, the reactions on reddit make me even more sad...Wow, the reactions on reddit make me even more sad than the story.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8964719845369935777.post-26756952550788769992015-02-04T14:25:36.753-05:002015-02-04T14:25:36.753-05:00Say goodbye to your career if you do.
http://www...Say goodbye to your career if you do. <br /><br />http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2r0hza/i_reported_my_phd_advisor_for_harassment_and/?sort=controversialAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8964719845369935777.post-24192564108703248352015-02-04T13:14:36.912-05:002015-02-04T13:14:36.912-05:00Is there a reason you never reported the ongoing r...Is there a reason you never reported the ongoing relationship of the advisor and graduate student? I understand how difficult it would be to do so, but it is unprofessional and inappropriate and action is required. The only way to stop such behaviors in academia is to speak up. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8964719845369935777.post-20788556681890426892015-02-04T03:39:53.198-05:002015-02-04T03:39:53.198-05:00'For months, I could not eat breakfast until I...'For months, I could not eat breakfast until I had cried my nerves out while hiding at my boyfriend's desk. Then I would return to my lab/office and try to get work done. ' I did something similar. I think you all (in this series) are very brave to have taken the steps to change your life instead of sticking with the devil you know. Wish you the best! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com